Communication for Stimulation

Offering Compliments and Affirmations

Example:
“You look so incredible tonight. Just seeing you makes me feel so lucky to be with you.”

“Every time we’re together, I’m reminded of how amazing you make me feel. You’re just perfect.”

Asking for Consent

Example:
“Is it okay if I touch you here?”

“Would you like to try this? We can stop anytime if you’re not comfortable.”

Talking After Sex (Affirmations and Reflection)

Example:
“That was amazing. I feel so connected to you right now.”

“I love being with you like this. You make me feel so safe and wanted.”

Asking for Feedback

Example:
“Was there anything you liked or didn’t like tonight? I want to make sure you feel great, too.”

“I really want to know what turns you on—tell me if there’s something I can do to make it even better.”

Using Humor

Example:
“Well, that was definitely a workout! You’re making me sweat!”

“I think we just broke a record for longest kiss!”

Setting Boundaries

Example:
“I’d like to try that, but I’m not comfortable with [this]. Can we try something else instead?”

“I’m really enjoying what we’re doing, but I need a moment to slow down and catch my breath.”

Talking During Sex (Dirty Talk)

Example:
“You make me feel so incredible. I can’t get enough of you.”

“I love the way your body responds to mine.”

Talking About Emotional Needs

Example:
“I really feel close to you when we’re intimate like this. It makes me feel special.”

“I love being held after sex—it makes me feel cherished and connected.”

Sharing Fantasies

Example:
“What do you think about role-playing? I think it could be really fun to try something new together.”

“Imagine if we were in [a different scenario]. How do you think that would feel?”

Expressing Gratitude

Example:
“Thank you for being so patient with me. I really appreciate how kind you are.”

“I’m so grateful for how you make me feel—your care, your touch, it means so much.”


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