When I first decided to do this blog, I knew a few topics I wanted to dive into—sexual stigma and shame, gender equality and double standards, and the psychology behind fetishes. Speaking of stigmas and shame, I was very apprehensive to share what I was doing with anyone (including my wife), so when I finally showed another woman ( who I will talk about a lot more later) what I was working on—still very much in its infancy—I asked her thoughts. To my surprise, she was not only impressed but genuinely interested in the blog’s concept. We connected, and it was a turning point. This was before I had launched anything, so I was eager for feedback and welcomed all perspectives.

I knew what I was doing was risky. I was fully aware of the stereotypes and judgments that could come with creating a sex blog. So when this mom was so open to the idea and positive in her response, I took that as a sign. She even began to open up about her own sex life with her long-term boyfriend, sharing her hesitations about experimenting and the challenges she faced with a partner who wasn’t as receptive. It was a clear moment for me—I needed to do this…

This blog is not just about me; it’s a space for women to share their stories, explore what’s important to them, and talk openly about their experiences. I want to hear what other women are going through, what they want to learn, and what matters to them in their sexual lives. That moment at the soccer game was just the beginning of something bigger, a community of women being seen, heard, and empowered.